It is the natural right of every human being to be happy and escape all the miseries of life. Happiness is the product of wisdom. Why do we suffer in life? Because, in the scheme of nature, we are being forced forward in evolution and we lack the spiritual illumination that alone can light the way and enable us to move safely among the obstacles that lie before us, There was a time when we had health and strength, but they have both departed, and no trace of a reason appears. The thing we lack is the spiritual illumination that will enable us to look far and wide, finding the hidden causes of human suffering and revealing the method by which they may be avoided. If we can but reach illumination, the evolutionary journey can be made both comfortably and swiftly.
The theory was that when a man was born, he was a complete human being, and all that could be done for him was to load him up with information that would be used with more or less skill, according to the native ability he happened to be born with. Whatever happens to all of us in the next ten, twenty, or thirty years, I believe we must all look at things from a different perspective. I can't seem to imagine life without any piece of wisdom that could guide us. Whether we're religious or not, it takes more courage to accept our fears and learn how to deal with them. That's all that matters when it comes to even just getting along.
"What Really Makes You Tick?
"Are you preparing for self-improvement?" you should ask yourself. We're all pelted with problems. Honestly, it shouldn't even bother or hinder us from becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as children should live on in us, even if they are fleeting or only last as long as we can hold on to the dream. They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks, or can they?
“What do I really want?”
The question of the ages There are so many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about them during the day. Finding something you're good at can help you take the first step toward improvement. Diligence is the key to knowing that it is worth it.
Should I really change?
According to the kids, today's generation has taken self-definition to a whole new level. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?
What's the bright side in all of this?
With so much happening around us, there seems to be no room for even considering the light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if there's a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!
Have I done enough for myself?
have you, or do you want to do something else? Discontent in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts, you'll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.
What motivates me?
What motivates you? It's an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but choosing one of them may be the hardest part. It's not like you can't have one serving of your favorite food at a buffet and that's it. Just try it piece by piece.
What really makes you tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it's something that you really want.
It's just as important as asking questions. Sometimes listening to the sound of our own voice can teach us to be a little bit confident with ourselves and to say the things we believe in with conviction.
We all make mistakes, and sometimes we tend to slur our words, stutter, and probably mispronounce certain words even though we know what it means, but rarely use them only to impress listeners. So, in a group, don't be afraid to ask if you're saying the right word properly and if they're unsure about it then make a joke out of it. I promise you it'll make everyone laugh and you can get away with it as well.
Be like the rest of them
Interaction is all about mingling with other people. You'll get a lot of ideas, as well as know what people make them as they are.
Me, Myself, and I
Admit it, there are times you sing to yourself in the shower. I know I do! Listening to the sound of your own voice while you practice your speech in front of a mirror can help correct the stress areas of your pitch. And while you're at it you can spruce up as well.
With a smile
A smile says it all much like eye contact. There's no point in grimacing or frowning in a meeting or a gathering unless it's a wake. You can better express what you're saying when you smile.
A Role Model
There must be at least one or two people in your life you have listened to when they're at a public gathering or maybe at church. Sure, they read their lines, but taking a mental note of how they emphasize what they say can help you once you take center stage.
Make the best out of preparation rather than just scribbling notes and often in a hurried panic. Some people like to write things down on index cards, while others resort to being a little sillier as they look at their notes written on the palm of their hand (not for clammy hands, please). Just be comfortable with what you know since you enjoy your work.
Happy as You Want to Be
One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change, and in our life, we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation, we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change. Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, and constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If ideas seem unavoidable, still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along well with them. Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also healthier. These are the few simple things you can do every day to acquire power through self-development.
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